Written on December 17, 2016...still real today.
This morning for some odd reason, I looked back over my facebook page. On it I found so many people sending me their thoughts and love. Some people I knew for a short time long ago, and yet, they took time out of their day to write to me. I have found this profoundly moving.
Sometimes when birthdays pop up on my screen, I think will they really care if I say happy birthday? Do they really even remember me? So I must confess over the last year, I have not written more than I have. I am now sorry that I didn't write. Now I realize that we just don't know what people are going through. We don't know how much our taking the time to think about them, even for that minute, will mean to them. Usually that moment conjures up memories of that friend or loved one and we actually spend more time thinking about them that day. Those moments matter. You notice I did not say "the words" matter. I said the "time". The knowledge of you thinking of a person is really what they need.
I have spent this last half of 2016 on the sidelines, pretty much. I have observed from my chair how busy everyone has been. How tired everyone is. How much hurt everyone is holding. How much anger courses through everyone's bodies. How much grief everyone is feeling. How many of you are fighting for just causes. How much love you are all capable of having. How much joy you bring others.
I want to acknowledge it all. I want to express deep gratitude to each of you. For those who have lost a loved one this year, I cry with you, I hold you in my heart, and I give you space to grieve. For those who are also fighting daily to stay healthy and as well as possible, I am beside you, I vent with you, I cry with you, and I am a warrior with you. For those fighting cancer or other life threatening diseases, I am angry with you, I cry with you, I laugh with you, I hold you in my heart. For those experiencing big life changes this year, I sit beside you, I cheer you on, and I hold your hand. For those of you who are just trying to parent children and teens and get them to adulthood, I scream with you, I curse with you, I shed tears of happiness with you, and I hold you tight. For those who are lonely and longing for love, I cry with you, I ache with you, and I am here for you. For those who just feel lost right now with adulthood looming ahead, I hurt with you, I pace with you, I scream with you, and I trust with you that something will come along.
2017 is my "Kick Ass" year. I will fuel my body with what it needs to heal. I will exercise my body to keep it strong. I will be present in my life. I will feed my soul by being in nature, reading books, journaling, and sewing/knitting. I will fight for the causes that are dear to me. I will be available to listen to any of my friends who needs an ear.
Just as 2016 has been a mish-mash of life, so is the last blog post. Happy New Year everyone!